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Yep, to some women, sleeping with their husband is one chore they brace up for. They prepare for it as if about to swallow dogon yaro concoction.

She holds her breath, bites her lips, grits her teeth, frowsn and hiss throughout the banging time and when it is finally over, she sighs with relief and goes about her other duties happily because it would take time before she is called to bed for another wifely duty.

S*x is  a bitter pill to swallow…to some people. And no sane man would want to climb a woman who behaves as if his tool is malaria medicine.

How did it come to that?

Simple, the woman does not enjoy s*x with her husband. And she is not calm enough to sit back and think about it. Probably because she doesn’t see it as important. Or she doesn’t know she is supposed to think about it.

For her to enjoy sex she has to want it. And how is she going to start wanting it?
By thinking about it! Yes, she is going to start thinking about shagging and why she is not enjoying it and what she is supposed to do about it.

First, she needs to do her c*nt a favour and talk to experts. Those who know about sex. But unfortunately, they are few in our clime. But she can still get information online.

She shouldn’t  be shy buying aphrodisiacs to kickstart her libido. And please, let her talk with her hubby. If he needs to wash his boxers, have a haircut or wear deodorant, let her find a way to make him know.

And if he bashes her hole like a farmer weeding his farm, and she doesn’t like it, let her tell him. In fact tell him what she wants in bed.

He shouldn’t be offended. He should be glad that his wife is willing to improve on their bedroom dance sessions, changing it from malaria medicine drinking period to sugar licking time. And as she enjoys it more, it means better cruising for him